the baggy trousered misanthropist

missives issued from the lair

We’re having a conversation about sex at the moment. Not so much the great British tradition of ‘who’s doing it to who’ (although that continues unabated) but more how people arrive at the point of ‘doing it’ and others asserting their right to be in that conversation. I could tell you all about it here, …

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Do I have a responsibility not to self-harm because of the impact it will have on those around me? Not exactly a party starter, is it? But it’s because this is a deeply uncomfortable question with significant and numerous ramifications that we don’t engage with it – we try not to think about it at …

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